Are You Married The Right Person?

Are You Married The Right Person? Do You Want To Know Is This True?

Very often many womans asked themselves  a question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"

 

Here's the answer.

Relationships between people has a cycle. At the start relationships, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, talk, listen ect.

Falling in love with your life parntner was not hard. In fact, it was a completely spontaneous experience. You did not have to do anything.

That is why it is called "falling" in love - because it's HAPPENING TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and Happened To You.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of almost every relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother, touch is not always welcome, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationships, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your life partner might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their life partners for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does not lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.

I am not saying that you could not fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe, there are also laws for your relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable - you can "make" love.

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